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Jun 3, 2015

Don't Overthink What People Label You

Hi gorgeous!
What makes me love this blog so much is because I can write anything (but not so inspiring posts, i know right :P). You know I'm just so happy whenever I can write down what I have been thinking lately to you my readers. Thank you for reading my post and keep going back to this blog and read my post. I love you so much! *smooch* and I'm sorry because I was inactive for a quite long time :( my wifi at home was down and I could not go blog hopping and reply your favor by commenting on my post :( Apparently my wifi is getting better.

Everytime I see famous people social media from instagram to youtube, it filled with super nice and the rests are bad comments. Most of bad comments are labelling the owner of social media too harshfully. Case in point: celebrities' social media or any other famous people's account.  I think people who always write a bad comment on others' social media are really judgemental, have no manner, and rude. Nah, it's kind of bad habit because it is a cyber bullying guys. But it also happens in real life. People oftenly label us. Yes, because somehow I get labelled too. I am a bit irritated by being labelled and makes can barely sleep at night, but let's see from the positive side. I can try to calm myself down so I can think positively. I have time to reflect myself, we know as a human we are NOT perfect. We may did a mistake and sometimes we didn't realize it. We may hurt someone by our words or how we acts. Take time for yourself to reflect it. For me, it is a time to reflect myself. hehe. Then, what if they only label us by no reasons and they just do it anyway? In my opinion, it is because our lifes seem happier than them. They say what they want to say, in front or behind our back. But they don't know how much we are struggling to achieve what we may have now or how much we try to smile just in case not to show the world how much we have been hurt. Well, let's say they only see what is seen. Overthink what people label me made worry too much about others think about me which lead me to lack of confident, losing my spirit, hating myself, and any other negative things. Lucky me I sufferred from all of those even it took time.

J.REP - White Shirt | Number 61 - Washed Jeans | GOSH - Wedged Sneakers

So, I want to sum up what I have said above with a famous quotes from Mother Theresa, and it is beyond true:
"People are unreasonable self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ultelior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
if you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the best you have and it maybe never enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway. "

I went to Pine Woods with my boyfie yesterday, I think it is the most famous place-to-go recently. It is not too far to get there from Yogyakarta. Because it was public holiday yesterday the place was so crowded. No wonder why people admiring it lately because you can have a picnic there and enjoy the breathtaking view with your beloved ones. Because it was my first time went there I only bring a bottle of mineral water and a bottle of coke. It was quite hard to find a perfect place to sit so we looked around and finally found a perfect place to take photos and to seat. We were listening to our favorite songs and singing along. It was so fun! :))

I was wearing jeans because I went there by motorcycle. So this is the first post along this year I am wearing jeans. :) I wanted to wear super comfy outfit yesterday so I was wearing a white shirt, parka as the outer, and a pair of wedged sneakers to pull the whole look. I actually applied a red lipstick, I don't know why my lipstick doesn't always looked in my pictures :(( I am glad to see your comment(s) about my look below :) Be sure to follow me on GFC or Bloglovin too girls.

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